Shown above are some names extracted from the Condolence Book signed by those who attended the funeral. This is a translation of the signatures.
Charli Koevoets (Partner of Margaret’s nephew Jameson Henderson Redden) “Love you Marg (heart image) |
Jim Redden (Margaret’s brother) |
John Coppoch (Former Catholic Priest, Conductor of the funeral service and close friend of Cheryl Scopazzi) |
Ryan (close friend of Cheryl Scopazzi and one time friend of Margaret and me) |
Jameson Henderson Redden (Margaret’s nephew and son of Jim Redden) |
Sue Chapman (former 50 year plus friend of Margaret) |
Chris Reilly (husband of Margaret’s deceased friend Sue Marshall and close friend of Margaret and me) |
Heather Long (former 50 year plus friend of Margaret) |
Andrew Long (husband of Heather Long and former friend of Margaret and me) |
With Love Cheryl Scopazzi (Margaret's closest friend after Ann Ryan. Cheryl continued to visit Margaret at home after the cancellation by Cancer Ghosting took effect in January 2021. She cancelled me in January 2024 after Margaret had died) |
Dan and Mary O’Toole (close friends of Ann Ryan and of Margaret and me) |
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Two very close friends who were specifically invited to the funeral but who refused to attend were
Ann Ryan (Probably the closest friend Margaret had and former wife of Jim Redden) |
Neslyn Fernandez (my friend since 1997 and former lover of Ann Ryan) |
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Although Ann Ryan was in Ireland when Margaret died, she had known Margaret was dying and could easily have flown back to Adelaide. She refused to do so.
I made sure there was plenty of time in which Ann Ryan could fly to the funeral in Adelaide and she was not prevented from attending by lack of money from attending. She is on a retirement pension of €63,000.00 per year.
Ann Ryan, supposed friend of Margaret, refused to attend the funeral. She sent no message of condolence – either by text or card or anything else.
Neslyn Fernandez, my supposed friend, refused to attend the funeral. Nes sent me a text supposedly expressing condolences but the text did not even mention Margaret’s name.
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This is Margaret giving a birthday present to Ann Ryan on 15 January 2020. Margaret organised the dinner in the restaurant.
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This is a photo of some of the guests at the Ann Ryan birthday dinner. Margaret is just visible on the far left of the photo. Guest of honour Ann Ryan is wearing the white top on the other side of the table from Margaret.
Margaret had not been diagnosed with cancer on 15 January 2020 when this photo was taken, but she was very visibly very ill. She had suddenly lost 20 kilograms in weight.
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This is our complete group of guests on Christmas Day 2021. The stuffed monkeys were brought to my hospital bed by Maurine Redden, Margaret’s sister. No one except the stuffed monkeys came to visit us on that Christmas Day.
Ann Ryan organised our Cancellation and Cancer Ghosting as from 26 January 2021. Margaret was in hospital and very close to death from 1 December 2021 up to and including 3 December 2021. Not one of the “friends” at the Ann Ryan birthday dinner visited her in hospital or sent any Christmas cards.
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This is the complete guest list when Margaret celebrated her final birthday on 30 March 2023. She could barely hobble from the car into the restaurant and she could barely eat. Ann Ryan’s Cancer Ghosting Cancellation made sure she received no birthday wishes from her former friends whom she had known for decades.
I believe Cheryl Scopazzi played the role of “Designated Friend” and that her job was to tell the Cancellation Crew any news she picked up from Margaret about her health prospects.
Cheryl Scopazzi came to the funeral in late August 2023, she borrowed $1,000.00 from me about a week after the funeral and then ceased all contact with me. She has never bothered to try and explain what crimes I am supposed to have committed.
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This is a summary of the contact I have had from the guests listed above in the funeral Commemoration Book – meaning those "friends" who could be bothered coming to the funeral.
Name | Relationship | Contact |
Charli Koevoets | Partner of Margaret’s nephew Jameson Henderson Redden | Said thanks when I gave her Margaret’s brand new car (at Margaret's express wish) and then ceased all contact in January 2024 |
Jim Redden | Margaret’s brother | Was an invited guest in my home on 23 November 2023 when $50,000.00 worth of Margaret’s jewellery was stolen. He has never denied stealing the jewellery even though he has had plenty of opportunity to do so. Is a Co-Executor of Margaret’s Will but has refused to assist in any way. Ceased all contact with me on 23 November 2023. Lied and told the dinner guests on 23 November 2023 that I had given permission for them to take Margaret's clothes and jewellery. |
Jameson Henderson Redden | Margaret’s nephew and son of Jim Redden | Was an invited guest in my home on 23 November 2023 when $50,000.00 worth of Margaret’s jewellery was stolen. Is a Co-Executor of Margaret’s Will but has refused to assist in any way. Ceased all contact with me in January 2024. Refuses to believe that his father might be a thief, but agreed that his father is always short of money. |
John Coppoch | Former Catholic Priest, Conductor of the funeral service and close friend of Cheryl Scopazzi | Has ignored me completely since the day of the funeral. I presume he has been persuaded by Cheryl Scopazzi to join the Cancer Ghosting Cancellation Crew. |
Ryan | Close friend of Cheryl Scopazzi and one time friend of Margaret and me | Has ignored me completely since the day of the funeral. I presume he has been persuaded by Cheryl Scopazzi to join the Cancer Ghosting Cancellation Crew. |
Cheryl Scopazzi | Extremely close friend of Margaret and me - the ONLY friend who continued to visit Margaret at home after her Cancellation by Cancer Ghosting took effect in January 2021 | Has ignored me completely since January 2024. She has not bothered to tell me what crimes I have committed. I was still sending texts to her in February 2024 when I was in Hospital. She never bothered to answer. I presume she has persuaded others to join the Cancer Ghosting Cancellation Crew. |
Sue Chapman | Former 50 year plus friend of Margaret | She has refused to talk to me since January 2021 and I did not know she was at the funeral until I saw the condolence Book. No condolence card or text sent by Sue when Margaret died |
Heather Long | Former 50 year plus friend of Margaret | She has refused to talk to me since January 2021 and I did not know she was at the funeral until I saw the condolence Book. No condolence card sent by Haether when Margaret died. |
Andrew Long | Husband of former 50 year plus friend of Margaret’s Heather Long | He has refused to talk to me since January 2021 and I did not know he was at the funeral until I saw the condolence Book. No condolence card or text from Andrew when Margaret died. |
Chris Reilly | Husband of Margaret’s deceased friend Sue Marshall and close friend of Margaret and me. Margaret and I went to comfort Chris shortly after 3.00 am on the day she died. Neither of us went to work that day. | He has refused to talk to me since January 2021 and I did not know he was at the funeral until I saw him in the waiting area when I went to the toilet. When I saw him, he said hello John and I replied I thought he was refusing to talk to me. Christ then said “No, you have refused to talk to me”. No condolence card or text from Chris when Margaret died. |
Dan and Mary O’Toole | Close friends of Ann Ryan but we were also friends of heirs and had been guests at dinners and other functions | They have both refused to talk to me since January 2021 and have refused to reply to texts I have sent them. No condolence card or text from Dan or Mary when Margaret died. Ann Ryan persuaded them to join the Cancellation Crew. |
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Cancer Ghosting is real and it is vicious and debilitating. Margaret and I were both victims of Cancer Ghosting and I have continued to receive Cancer Ghosting even though Margaret has now been dead since 22 August 2023.
We both thought these people were close friends but they have treated us like pieces of rubbish.
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I took this photo of Margaret in October 1999. It is one of my favourites. The pain I have suffered because of Margaret's death has been significantly multiplied because of the Cancer Ghosting I have received.
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