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The neglected Red Lion Hotel at 121 Bridge Road Litherland where Cliff was introduced to my mother Josey Wood by Henry Bellew, husband of mum’s sister Veronica (Vera) Bellew.
John Hankin photo taken the 20th of August 2019.
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The Leeds to Liverpool Canal is crossed by Bridge Street just up the road from the Red Lion Hotel.
John Hankin photo taken 20th of August 2019.
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While my grandfather Thomas Joseph worked himself to death (literally, he died of a heart attack on 9th of January 1959), my grandmother Mary Jane entertained “Gentlemen Callers”. This meant she had intercourse as often as she could with as many different men as she could.
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Cliff died on 14th of June 1984 and is buried at Springvale Botanical Cemetery. He shares the grave with mum.
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Date Street would have been condemned as unfit if it had ever been audited by a modern health inspector. That would not have magically produced a better home for Cliff and his family. It would have simply forced his parents to find a different slum in which the family lived.
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Before Cliff could walk underneath the River Mersey through the Queensway Tunnel to Birkenhead, he had to get to the railway station nearest to the start of the Tunnel. He travelled by train on the now demolished Overhead Railway. It was a long tiring journey just to get to and from work.
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Because he had to work on ship repairing, Cliff learned how to be a plumber.
When I asked Cliff how he knew the plumbing trade, he pointed out that all pipes on ships are exposed rather than concealed behind walls. Because of this, he - as a ship repairer - was expected to do plumbing work on ships as a normal part of his job. Pipes on ship were of course always made out of metal then and Cliff was a sheet metal worker.
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Cliff and Josey married on Saturday 10 March 1945. When they married, even if Cliff had wanted to talk about his war experiences (very doubtful), the Official Secrets Act made sure he said nothing about his war time experiences except to RAF colleagues.
On that Saturday in March 1945:
WW II had not yet ended;
Cliff was 24;
Josey had already given birth to a child which had been snatched from her by the nuns in the single mothers’ home; and
Josey was 20.
The marriage record for the wedding lists mum’s young brother Henry Wood as the official “Witness” for Cliff at the wedding. I was puzzled by the absence of one of Cliff’s brothers from the Witness column on the wedding record. The explanation is straightforward enough.
Although Mary Jane had had intercourse with as many men as she could find, she ordered that all members of her family boycott the wedding of her son Cliff to the evil woman called Josephine Wood. Josey had committed an unforgivable sin. Josey had given birth to a child before she was married. Having intercourse with men who were not your husband was fine with Mary Jane because she was a married woman. She objected strongly though to having a daughter in law who had fallen in love before marriage and had a child as a result.
This was not a good omen for the start of Cliff and Josey’s marriage.
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I think Josey’s mental illness dates at least as far back as her marriage to Cliff in 1945. It probably dates back seven years earlier to the death of her father in 1939 when she turned 14.
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Cliff’s RAF service did not finish until 14 months after he married Josey. He was NOT posted to Liverpool to finish his service.
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Josey was the 3rd of her siblings to marry. Josey’s sisters Veronica (Vera) and Mary Evelyn (Evelyn) had married before her in late 1941 and early 1943.
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Cliff, Josey, my brother Bill and I migrated to Melbourne, Australia in 1952. We travelled on the ship New Australia. Also in New Australia were Vera and Harry Bellew and their children Jim and Dennis Bellew. In 1952, the Australian Government required migrants aged 19 and over to pay £10/-/- towards the cost of travel to Australia. This is the origin of the expression “Ten Pound Pom”.
Children aged under 13 travelled free, but £5/-/- had to be paid for children aged 14, 15, 16 and 17. Bill and I were free.
As well as paying the fixed travel cost contribution, Cliff and Josey also had to pay £2/-/- as “landing money” to the Australian Government. The £2/-/- “landing money” was supposed to be repaid to them when they arrived at the “reception centre” in Australia. Cliff and Josey had to find £22/-/- to migrate to Australia.
Although £22/-/- sounds like a trivial amount of money, finding £22/-/- was nearly impossible for them. In 1952, £22/-/- was the equivalent of at least £800.00 ($1662.10 in AUD) in today’s purchasing power. After filling out the paperwork to migrate on Wednesday 21 March 1951, Cliff worked two separate jobs to save up the £22/-/-.
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Courage is the only way that we can ever create the Paradise that should be here on Earth.
Hatred does nothing but perpetuate the Hell we have already created in our world
My astonishingly poor parents were also astonishingly brave.
Do not abandon people just because they are ill. Try and help those in need.
Bravery multiplies with use.
No matter how poor we are, we can always find courage. Courage is free but its value cannot ever be calculated.